“I hate you,” my client screamed as she walked out the door. “You don’t know what the f**k you’re doing.” She had spent the session telling me what a bad therapist I was and assuring me that all of ...

A mental mechanism in which the self or others are viewed as all good or all bad, with failure to integrate the positive and negative qualities of the self and others into cohesive images. Often, the ...

Arguments with someone who has BPD can feel intense. Here’s how you can defuse the situation without burning out or abandoning them. The study made an interesting point. The more couples learned to ...